Sunday, June 30, 2013

Mary Richards


 Mary Richards

  • born 15 November 1835 in Merthyr-Tydfil, Glamorganshire, Wales
  • died 2 July in Salt Lake City Utah
  • came to America in 1853
  • arrived in Salt Lake Valley 10 October 1853 with the Joseph W. Young Company




 Mary grew up in Merthry-Trydfil, Glamorganshire, Wales   When missionaries arrived in the city and began teaching, the William Richards family joined the church.  Mary was baptized in September of 1845.  William (the father) and four of his children—Mary, Elias, Martha and Eleazer—came to America together though the Perpetual Emigration Fund.  Their mother Harriet had died before this.  A company of 314 saints sailed from Liverpool 5 Feb. 1853.  After reaching New Orleans they sailed up the Mississippi River to Keokuk, then traveled on to the Valley.

Shortly after arriving in the Valley Mary, at age 18, met James James from the Parish of Pencarreg, Llangybi, Carmathenshire, Wales.  He was eleven years her senior.  They were married in Salt Lake City four months after she arrived.  Their first five children were born in Salt Lake City.

Then, in 1862 or 1863, the family moved to E.T., named for its founder Ezra Taft Benson (father of President Benson).  The name of this farming community was later changed to Lake Point in Tooele County. 

Seven more children were born to Mary and James at Lake Point.  Three of the James sons died young.  When Thomas, the seventh child, turned 14, Mary baked him a custard pie and told him he could eat it all by himself because he was the first son to live to the age of 14.

Mary confined her activates to her home and family.  When the youngest was five years old, the father died and Mary, at age 45, moved back to Salt Lake City.  At 135 South 5th West she had a four room home built from adobes made by her two teenage sons, Tom and David.  Railroad track now run where this house once stood.  While living there Tom, and perhaps David, in their teens, walked to the Salt Lake Tabernacle to pump the bellows for the big organ.

We do not know how Mary supported her family after her husband’s death, nor do we know any of her church callings.  She died at the early age of 49.


A close bond remained with the siblings through the years.  At least four of the James children lived in Park Valley, Utah, at the same time. 



Wednesday, June 26, 2013

J.T. jammin'


So "jammin'" might be a stretch right now, but he is well on his way.  A few months ago he came to me and asked for a guitar and guitar lessons.  On the inside I was jumping up and down yelling "yes, Yes, YES!!", but the responsible mom was the voice he heard.  "You want to play the guitar?  Well, if you save enough to pay for half, dad and I will match that."  Again the voice inside, "please, please be committed enough to reach this goal."  Troy and I have always encouraged our kids to try new things but we have always wanted to know if it was something they really wanted versus a cool idea that won't last long.  To curb the ideas and really foster the true desires we place a little responsibility on them.  Usually that responsibility comes in the form of cash.  We offer extra ways that they can earn money around the house, (read, chores that I hate that they can do for me :)  This guy totally came through.  He worked like a mad man, he cleaned up the yard after Troy trimmed the side bushes/trees and that in itself was no small feat.  He worked really hard.  We stopped at the music store at the beginning of this little venture so he would know how much to save and in a little over two months he was there and we went and picked out this beautiful instrument.

A little side story on the reason the voice inside my head cheered so loudly is that I have always wanted a guitar.  In fourth and fifth grade it was nearly an obsession for me.  I saved my money and dragged my mom to the store so I could caress and ogle over the  guitar that I knew would soon be mine.  I had $75 dollars saved, I only needed $25 more and would own my dream.  Then my dad talked to me.  He asked about lessons and how I would pay for them, and if I knew anyone who would be able to teach me.  I didn't, my hopes fell a little.  Then he pointed out that if I had the guitar but didn't know how to play it then it would be a waste of all that hard earned money.  My hopes continued to fall.  By the end of the conversation that grown up responsible person that has lived inside me even when I was little took over and I had decided to buy a bike instead.  It made more sense, it was much more practical.  Some of you may think my dad was wrong to talk me out of a dream, but before you make a rash judgement let me just say he was right.  He knew something that I didn't, I don't even think he knew he knew.  But that bike became a symbol of my ability to take care of myself.  After my mom passed away the next year, and I didn't have someone readily available to drive me places, that blue 12 speed took me all over, I rode to piano lessons, friends houses, the store in the little town nearby, cheerleader practice and eventually to drivers ed every day until I got my license.  That bike gave me the ability to achieve many more dreams that I had, and it was MINE, I bought it, I had ownership in that thing and that meant the world to me.  So I thank my dad for the practical side that he blessed me with and now with all my 11 year old heart I am cheering on my cute son to make that guitar sing the way I always wished I could.  Because I know he worked for it and he wants to.  He goes into his room and practices when he is done with chores, not because I told him to but because he loves it.  Good job J.T.!!  I love you!!

Monday, June 24, 2013

Temple Walk

I have had in my mind that I wanted to walk to the temple for awhile now.  I wanted to challenge my kids and allow them an experience that would ground them a bit and give them something to remind them of the importance of the choices that they make everyday.  

We didn't know for sure how many miles we would walk.  We thought is would be somewhere between 5 and 6 miles.  We were excited that this excursion would make a major dent in the 500 mile goal that we set at the beginning of the summer.  Everyone started with big smiles and a little excitement.

This is the view we have of the temple along the road that we live on.  We all commented on that fact that is seems SO far away.

Sara and Cambelle got a bit of a head start and stuck together for the first mile and then let us catch up.  I loved that they held hands.  Troy and J.T walk alike, it made me smile to watch this for a bit. When I looked ahead of me I was reminded how blessed I truly am.  We talked as we walked.  The first thing that we talked about was tithing.  We talked about the blessing that tithing is because we are able to use the money to build temples and because as we pay tithing we are able to attend the temple.

When we got a little closer to town we stopped for a shaved ice.  This part of the walk was noisy and there were lots of roads to cross.  We compared that to the distractions of the world and that we have to be mindful of what is going on around us.


We saw this gorgeous flower along the busy road.  I guess it goes to show you that even in chaos and confusion there are moments of beauty and serenity.

Along the final stretch we were under a canopy of trees.  It became much quieter and very enjoyable.  We saw this plaque along the way, it talks about the first school in the city.  We have driven along this road thousands of times and not one of us has ever seen this marker.  We talked about how sometimes you have to slow down and look around to notice the unexpected treasures.  So similar to our own lives.

Beautiful.

When we arrived there was a definite change in the way we felt.  J.T. quickly removed his hat and we all began speaking a little more reverently.  We slowed our pace and looked up and the beautiful spire.  We sat for a moment and just soaked in the feeling.  Then we began a discussion about the people that we love.  The kids named Grandma and Grandpa Thurgood, our family, Grandpa Nelson and then Cambelle named Grandma Nelson, "even though I never met her".  We talked about how because of the covenants you can make in the temple we have the opportunity to be with these people forever.  We talked of Christ and the great sacrifice he made for each of us and the love that He and our Heavenly Father has for us.  It was a sweet discussion.


We took a minute to write letters to Grandma and Grandpa.  The kids all went to different benches and took time to be alone and think about the walk they had just experienced.





The walk was 6 1/2 miles total, the kids did not complain once, seriously, not even a "how much longer" question.  There was not a single fight or disagreement along the way either.  Maybe that should be a lesson that when we are focused on something so positive it is so much easier to keep the negative away.  How grateful I am for my sweet family.  I treasure the knowledge that I have of Eternal Families.  I know that all this is possible only through our Savior Jesus Christ.  I feel so very blessed.

Sunday, June 23, 2013

Abraham Chadwick Sr.


Abraham Chadwick Sr.
  • Born on 30 March 1821
  • Died on 4 July 1904
  • was a tailor by profession
  • played the saxhorn in a band that played at the ceremony when the cornerstones were layed for the Salt Lake Temple
  • was married to 4 women named Mary




ABRAHAM CHADWICK (SR.)
Written by Dora Dutson Flack, a Great-great-granddaughter

Life Before Joining The Church
Among the sooted smokestacks and damp yards of Crab Lane, Blackley, Lancashire, England, Samuel and Esther Consterdine Chadwick welcomed their fifth son into the world on 30 March 1821. Little did they dream, as they gazed happily at their newborn, how this baby's commitments would carry him even across the Atlantic Ocean.

(For many years the Chadwick Family had resided at Crab Lane, a township in the Parish near Manchester, known as Higher Blackley. In 1835 it became Blackley, sometimes spelled Blakeley.  St. Peter was a Parish Church in the town.)

Eight sons and one daughter of Samuel and Esther were all born in Blackley, Lancashire, England, and were christened at St. Peter:
1. John, christened 9 December 1810.
2. James, christened 21 February 1813.
3. William, born 17 April 1815, christened 21 May 1815.
4. Samuel, christened 14 January 1818.
5. Abraham, born 30 March 1821, christened 15 July 1821.
6. Robert, born 20 November 1823, christened 30 November 1823.
7. Thomas, christened 17 May 1826.
8. Edwin, christened 20 July 1828.
9. Sarah Ann, born 19 April 1831, christened 17 July 1831.

These children learned to work early in life. As a youth Abraham enjoyed little play time.  At age 8, he began working with his father in the "dye works." Uncle John Elsely (or Elsby) was an expert tailor. This profession appealed to Abraham. So at age 14 or 15 he began his 5-year  apprenticeship under his Uncle John, then earned his living chiefly as a tailor the rest of his life.

However, he also availed himself of additional employment opportunities on the side.  Possessing a jovial disposition, his eyes searched for humorous opportunities. For example, one evening while assisting in serving eminent officials at an exclusive banquet, Abraham watched as the guests seated themselves at the various tables, all looking like penguins in their starched white shirts and long-tailed black coats. Hurrying from the kitchen to the large dining room, he carried the steaming dishes, then returned the emptied plates. At one point he simply couldn't resist the impulse to unobtrusively tie the tails of one distinguished, stiff-collared penguin's coat to the legs of the chair on which he sat. That tied-down penguin had trouble leaving the table.
Lean Abraham was of medium height with broad shoulders. His pleasant face showed medium-high cheekbones, a prominent nose, light brown hair and twinkling blue eyes. Cleanliness of mind and body were his lifetime qualities.
The New Church Changes Lives
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints was being introduced into England when Abraham was in his late teens. Upon hearing the missionaries, he believed. The Chadwick Family were faithful members of the Church of England. At age 18 Abraham informed them of his desire to join the new church. Upset, the family closed their door to him. He was baptized 6 May 1839 by Elder Jackson. This was not quite two years after the first baptisms in England, which had been performed in the River Ribble 30 July 1837. This became the turning point in his life.

Soon Abraham met an attractive young lady, Mary Burton. Mary was the eldest of eleven children of William and Jane Shippenbotham Burton. She was born 26 June 1820 in Bolton, Lancashire, England. (The Shippenbotham name is spelled several different ways in records: Shipperbottorn, Shippabotharn, etc. We know of no reliable spelling.) Her ten siblings were Hannah, Alice, Sarah, Ellen, Ann, Eliza, John, George, Jane, and Joseph.

Early in their lives these family members were also taught to work hard. But they were a close family who loved to laugh and play when they could, and quarreled like most children. As a child, Mary sang little ditties that her family enjoyed. Her singing often accompanied work.

At a very early age Mary learned to weave and to sew, a much needed talent with such a large family. As a teenager she soon had charge of four weaving looms on her job.

The whole Burton family joined the new church, which is probably where Abraham Chadwick met Mary Burton and they became friends. Since Abraham was a tailor by trade and Mary a weaver and dressmaker, they immediately had common interests. With Mary's spontaneous singing, they quickly shared their love of music.

From early childhood Abraham sang and whistled and later played a saxhorn. Their friendship quickly blossomed into courtship. After being alienated from his own family, Abraham doubly appreciated the fellowship of Mary's home.

Sewing equipment was put away long enough for them to go to Manchester, Lancashire to be married 20 December 1840 in the Manchester Cathedral. Abraham was 19 years old, and Mary was 20.

Abraham and Mary became very faithful members of the Church and constantly were subjected to the urge to go to America to join the expanding number of members there. They soon availed themselves of the opportunity for Patriarchal Blessings.

Abraham received his blessing on 13 July 1841, seven months following their marriage, from John Albiston, Patriarch of the Newton Moor Branch. Patriarch Albiston was born 3 June 1783 at Coogleton, Cheshire, England, and was ordained a Patriarch 6 April1841 at Manchester, England, -by Brigham Young. This blessing was given at Dukinfield:

"Abraham Chadwick born at Blakley, Lancashire, March 30 A.D. 1821.
"Dear Brother, I lay my hands and pronounce the Blessings of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. I say unto Thee, as Thou hast obeyed the Gospel ordinances of Baptism, having believed-Thou art brought into the new and everlasting covenant and hast a claim to all the promises of the Gospel.
"The Mysteries of Redemption by Jesus Christ shall be revealed to Thy mind in clearness and Thou shalt preach the fullness of that Gospel to other seven in Foreign Lands and assist in gathering the scattered tribes of lsrael and Judah.
"Being blessed with wisdom and knowledge and discernment-and be saved from error and declare the whole council of God-and be brought to Zion and overcome all enemies and see signs and wonders wrought in the name of Jesus Christ, and have an inheritance with the Saints. Many blessings shall be given Thee-all the glorious things of the day of Christ.
"Thou art ofthe blood ofEphraim. I seal Ye, Amen"

Even though Abraham and Mary were happy in their home, work and church, they seemed drawn "to gather to Zion." The land of America might offer more opportunities for greater development in occupation, church and family.
America Is Inevitable
Fourteen months after their marriage, on 5 February 1842, Abraham and Mary boarded the ship Hope bound for America. Elder Burnham and Elder Amos Fielding supervised the company of 270 Mormon immigrants. The young couple, with hope in their hearts, two receipts for their boat fares and an empty purse, watched as their beloved country receded in the background, fading smaller and smaller. Watching the waves of the ocean, they realized that a new life awaited them in the New World.

For two long months the ship Hope sailed across the Atlantic. Concentrating on the name of the ship sustained them during the long days, and the young couple felt they would someday reach their destination in spite of the dangers. One night Abraham stayed on deck to watch a crushing storm. The ship was lifted high by the rough waves, then sank to opposite depths. Suddenly a large cannon broke loose on deck and barely missed slamming the young observer into a watery grave. Many prayers were offered for safety during the long voyage.

The fare to America had squeezed the last penny from Abraham's purse. When they left England, they also brought fabric. Mary was ready with her needles and thread. So Abraham resumed his tailoring trade aboard ship. With the money received for making three suits, he was able to purchase the fare from New Orleans to St. Louis, and a little money to spare. Their voyage from England to New Orleans took 56 days, 8 full weeks, arriving in St. Louis 2 April 1842. What a relief to walk on dry ground again.

After resting a week in New Orleans, they boarded the boat Louisiana. On April 10 they started up the Mississippi River with its elevated spring flow. When they reached St. Louis, Abraham and Mary decided they had endured enough water, and remained there for six years. After finding a home, Abraham searched for work. Tailors were in great demand and he found a job in one day. In those six years in St. Louis, the couple welcomed three babies into their family:
#1 Wife, Mary Burton
1. Mary Jane, born 29 April1843 (named Mary for her mother
and Jane for her grandmother).
2. Abraham, born 30 March 1846.
3. Ann (Annie), born 8 May 1847.

Missionaries sometimes stayed at their home overnight, always reporting news about members of the church elsewhere. One of their guests was Orson Hyde, returning from dedicating Palestine.  Their home was used as the major headquarters.

Mary's outstanding singing voice brought attention from more than L.D. S. Church members.  Another Christian church offered to employ her as a soloist for their services. Money was needed, but she refused the opportunity because of her many responsibilities and the continuing desire to go West. Nor did she want to be involved with another sect.
Westward Ho!
Church members were gathering at Council Bluffs preparing to settle in the Rocky Mountains in the West. The Chadwick Family joined some of the Saints in Kanesville, Council Bluffs,  Iowa, and purchased a piece ofland for $11. Here Mary's last baby was born:
4. Sarah, born 16 October 1849.

However, family security and peace was not to last. After helping a woman who was afflicted with cholera, Mary contracted the disease. The woman recovered. However, on the hot evening of July 14, 1850, the venturesome tailor Abraham stood beside the bed of his devoted wife often years, watching her strong lungs and throat suck frantically for air which carne too slow for her congested lungs. Her once-clear eyes closed in death, from cholera, and Abraham was left alone. How could  he manage their four little ones?  She was buried at Kanesville (Council Bluffs), Pottawattami County, Iowa.
Wife #2-Mary Foxall
Abraham and Mary Burton had experienced nearly ten precarious years together-crossing the Atlantic, then living on the edge of civilization in the New World. Five ofMary Burton's siblings had recently immigrated to America for the new church: John, Joseph, Anna, Alice and Ellen. The timing was ideal because they now assisted with their sister's four young Chadwick children.

Obviously the youngsters, especially the nine-month-old baby Sarah, needed a mother's care.  Surprisingly, within three months of Mary's death, Abraham found his second Mary. Mary Foxall.  (Foxhall) was born at Colwell, Herefordshire, England, 3 January 1832, the daughter of James and Mary Jenkins Foxall (Foxhall). At 13, she became a member of the new church. Her siblings were:   William, Hannah, Anne, James, Elizabeth, Sarah, Ellen and Martha. The Mormon Elders carne to the community, and family members were baptized, although some of the dates cannot be found. The mother, Mary Jenkins Foxall died 16 April1845 of Typhus Fever and the father James Foxall died 9 October 1846 of cancer.

In time Mary Foxall emigrated to America and settled in Kanesville, Pottawattami County, Ohio. When she was 18, Abraham Chadwick met her and immediately felt she would be a good mother for his children who also accepted her.

Abraham Chadwick and Mary Foxall were married 27 October 1850, only three months after his Mary Burton died. Baby Sarah was barely a year old. After their marriage and sealing, performed by Orson Hyde, Mary Foxall stood proxy for Mary Burton's sealing to Abraham.

The following spring (1851) Abraham and Mary prepared to join with a company of pioneers bound for the Rocky Mountains with 150 wagons, pulled by oxen. The Chadwicks packed all their belongings into their wagon. Daughter Mary Jane and son Abe (Jr.), 8 and 6 years old, walked much ofthe way so that four-year-old Annie and baby Sarah could ride in the wagon. The miles inched slowly. Riding on a wooden wagon seat was anything but comfortable. Mary already expected her first baby, and the wagon was more than crowded.

One day six-year-old Abe fell in the rough path, slipping beneath a moving wagon wheel.  With a crushed leg, young Abe had to ride in the wagon. His father, sensing the lad's boredom, raised the side of the wagon cover so he could watch the prairie as they plodded forward.

The next challenge came when Mary gave birth to her firstborn, and the wagon served as the hospital to bring the baby into this world:
#2 Wife Mary Foxall   1. Marion, born 27 July 1851, on the plains.

After crawling across the dusty prairie for six months, they finally reached the salt-stained valley in Utah Territory on 11 Octo her 1851. Salt Lake City was four years old, a blossoming community which numbered over 30,000 inhabitants.
Life Begins in The West
Two years in the Salt Lake Valley passed quickly. Their little Marion was only 18 months old when Mary gave birth to her second baby:
#2 Wife Mary Foxall 2. Edward, born 20 December 1852, in Salt Lake City.

Now this 20-year-old woman must care for six children, the oldest being 9 years of age.

Utah's first musical band, under the direction of Walter Baker, was scheduled to play on 6 April 1853 for services to lay the cornerstone of the great Mormon Temple. Abraham played the "Saxhorn" and became a member of that band. With great pride he described the ceremony:
"The General Conference opened at 1 0 A.M. and after a few remarks by President Young, a procession was formed and moved forward to the S.E. comer of the Temple site. When all was ready, the First Presidency, Brigham Young, Heber C. Kimball and Willard Richards with Patriarch John Smith, laid the S.E. Corner while the choir sang a hymn. An oration by Pres. Young followed. Then Pres. Kimball offered the dedicatory prayer. Another song was sung and the procession moved to the S.W. corner, where Presiding Bishop Edward Hunter, his council and various presidencies of the Lesser Priesthood laid the cornerstone.  The oration was delivered by Edward Hunter. The prayer of dedication by Alford Cordon. The choir sang and the order of the procession was resumed until the N.W. comer was reached. Pres. John Young and Council ofHigh Priests Quorum, David Fullmer, Pres. of the Stake officiating John Young delivering the oration, and dedicatory prayer was delivered by Elder George B. Wallace. Then the N.E. corner was reached, 11 of the 12 apostles were present. Orson Pratt being absent in Washington on a mission, the First Council of Seventies and the Presidents of the Elders Quorum. The oration was delivered by Elder P. P. Pratt, and the dedicatory prayer was offered by Orson Hyde thus the cornerstone was laid. President Brigham Young blessed the people when all were assembled in the tabernacle and received instructions."
Abraham's tailoring skill was needed extensively in the Valley. In fact, he was honored to make the first new suit for Brigham Young. President Young wore that suit for the Temple Dedicatory Service.
Wife #3-Mary Wheeler
Women were in the majority among the L.D.S. converts, but the frontier offered no security for single women. Polygamy became a real blessing to many of those settlers, including Abraham and Mary. They reasoned that bringing another wife into their family circle could mean survival for 20-year-old Mary Foxall with their 6 children under 9 years of age.

The couple decided the newfound Mary Wheeler would be ideal for their family. At the same time it would give her stability. Mary Wheeler had immigrated to Utah with an elderly couple from Council Bluffs, Iowa. She was born 8 May 1831 in Gravely, Cambridgeshire, England, the daughter of John and Elizabeth Gillings Wheeler. A year younger than #2 wife, Mary Foxall, Mary Wheeler was a woman of remarkable physical strength.

At his office on 22 May 1853, Brigham Young performed the marriage ceremony for Abraham and his third wife, Mary Wheeler.  But complex crises continued in the Chadwick family.
Mary Wheeler gave birth to her firstborn:
#3 Wife Mary 1. Albert William, born 4 March 1854.
Two months later, on 10 April 1854, Mary Foxall lost 3-year-old Marion, her oldest child.  Four heart-breaking days later, on April 14, she also lost her 16-month-old Edward, both with Scarlet Fever.  This reduced the size of the Chadwick family down to five living children.

Father Abraham was also gone at this time. He had been dispatched as a missionary to Fort Supply country for ten months. (This is now Fort Bridger.) At that time it was a tract of land 30 miles square, purchased by Brigham Young, located on the Green River. Abraham left Salt Lake City 15 November 1853 with 52 others and their teams, farming implements, seeds and the supplies necessary for equipping a new settlement. Apparently he stayed there to help with the spring planting.

News from home had not reached him. When he returned 29 August 1854, he was shocked to learn that Marion and Edward, his daughter and son by Mary Foxall, had died from Scarlet Fever.  His feelings were lifted somewhat with news that Mary Wheeler's baby Albert had arrived five months before.  These two Marys could never have survived without each other's assistance.
That autumn, on 14 November, Abraham took his family north to Bingham's Fort, where Mary Foxall's third baby arrived:
#2 Wife Mary Foxall 3. Alonzo, born 21 March 1855, at Bingham's Fort.
Final Move to North Ogden
The area north of Ogden seemed to hold promise to Abraham, where the Great Basin floor sloped upward to meet the massive mountains, especially the one later called Mt. Ben Lomond.  Snow in the crevices promised water. Abraham felt this assured him of future farmland. So he planted a homestead, scratched furrows into the land, and scraped hollow ditches to make the water flow where he planted seeds. North Ogden became their permanent home.

So much had happened since Abraham joined the church, and closing the Chadwick door in England, and he felt that his family should be informed. Without communication for 20 years, the family in England had assumed Abraham was dead. They were overjoyed to hear from him at last.  Immediately they answered his letter informing him that all was forgiven. Correspondence continued regularly after that.
#3 Wife Mary Wheeler gave birth to her second child:
2. Elizabeth, born 15 September 1855, in North Ogden.
A year later Mary Foxall had her fourth child:
#2 Wife Mary Foxall 4. Eva Elizabeth, born 23 October 1856, at North Ogden.

When Eva was only five months old, her mother, Mary Foxall, died 11 March 1857, after being married to Abraham for only seven demanding years. This left Mary Wheeler with eight living children to rear, two from herself, and six from two other mothers, the oldest child being 14 years of age. Often Mary Wheeler was the lone voice of authority when Abraham was called to assignments away from home.

On July 24, 1857, after the saints had been in the Valley for ten years, a memorable celebration was held at Big Cottonwood Canyon. Abraham played his saxhorn in the band. During the program word came to Brigham Young that Johnston's Army was on its way to the Territory to eliminate the Mormons, which caused great alarm. President Young promised the congregation that no harm would come, because the saints had been falsely accused.

Father Abraham was called to join resistance forces up Echo Canyon. As he walked with a companion up the canyon, he realized that his only weapon was a long pair of tailor's shears which he took apart, giving one blade to his companion. However, fighting was unnecessary. So he put his tailor's shears back together. Johnston's Army marched through Salt Lake City and set up their operation at Camp Floyd (now Fairfield) where they remained until the Civil War broke out. The Camp Headquarters is now a tourist attraction near the military cemetery at Fairfield.

Abraham's occupation of tailoring provided livelihood along with his farming, for a very active life in North Ogden. He tailored suits for· men in surrounding communities and also sewed overalls to be sold at the Sidney Stevens Mercantile in North Ogden.
Abraham was always active in the Church. In 1863 Bishop Dunn was called to settle in the Bear River Valley. People in North Ogden were called to a meeting and instructed to vote for their choice of a new bishop. Abraham Chadwick and Henry Holmes received the most votes. Chadwick lost by three votes. That same year he was appointed a Ward Teacher, a position he held for many years. That same year he was also called to be a "Home Teacher" which required him to preach in different settlements and occasionally in the Ogden Tabernacle.

Here is a quote from one ofhis sermons: "There is room for improvement within all of us. Yet I love the people and feel well in the Kingdom of God. And polygamy, though a stumbling block to many, iflived up to, as designed by the Almighty, would prove the salvation of the human family."  Obviously Abraham believed strongly in polygamy.

In 1866 Abraham was called to be Second Counselor to Bishop Holmes in the North Ogden Ward. One responsibility never seemed sufficient and that same year he was also named to the School Board.
Church and community really kept him busy. But so did his home and growing family. Even though Mary Wheeler worked hard at rearing the children she inherited from the first two Marys, she also bore ten more, making a total ofher 12:
#3 Wife Mary Wheeler 3. Esther Caroline, born 2 September 1857.
4. Clarissa, born 18 June 1859.
5. Mary Louise, born 21 December 1860.
6. Samuel, born 1 October 1862.
7. Olive Alberta, born 10 May 1864.
8. Ellen Adelia, born 8 March 1866.
9. Frances Alice, born 18 October 1867.
10. Eliza Ann, born 30 May 1869.
11. Sarah Emily, born 17 April1871.
12. Joseph Edward, born 30 March 1873.

Abraham continued primarily to be a tailor, not a farmer. So Mary spent long hours working in the fields to keep food on the table. She was also a good seamstress and taught her girls homemaking skills. Especially her first daughter sewed well. Mary also carded wool to make clothes for her children. Indeed she was the capable, skilled woman Abraham needed.

In addition to caring for her large family plus farm work, Mary was active in the Church.  By 1866 Mary Wheeler had eight children of her own. As if that were not enough, four more were yet to arrive (all listed above).
Wife #4-Mary Ann Newby
On 8 October 1866 Abraham married a fourth Mary-Mary Ann Smurthwaite Newby-only a short time after her arrival in North Ogden.

Mary Ann Newby was the daughter of John Newby and Isabella Smurthwaite, born 16 December 1836 in Monkwearmouth, Durham, England. She had assisted her father in his tailor shop in England and learned the intricacies of expert sewing. Her family had joined the Church in her early years and she was baptized at age 8. Shortly after her parents' deaths, she and three sisters emigrated to America in Thompson's Company on the ship "Arkwright." Once in America, the girls exchanged their expertly-fashioned clothing for rough wear and walked across the trackless plains, gathering chips and other needed materials for fires for the camp. They entertained the Company in the evenings with singing and dancing in the light of the fires. In many ways they helped their fellow travelers as needed, finally reaching the Valley.

Mary Ann was an outstanding young woman and it showed in her appearance. She stood 5' 4 1/4" tall, weighing about 135 pounds. Her dark blue eyes and black hair gave her a striking appearance. Her skill with tailoring became an immediate bond with Abraham when they met, also her talent with music and speaking. Immediately he sensed she would be a great help to his Mary Wheeler and their large family.

A month later Abraham became Second Councilor to President Holmes in the North Ogden Ward Presidency which position he held until 15 April 1868. In attending to his church duties, he blessed and confirmed many individuals. The same year Abraham was released, in 1868, Mary Wheeler was sustained as Second Councilor in the Relief Society Presidency. Her Elizabeth Ann was born the next year. Three years later she became First Councilor, then President in 1878, serving in that position until 1904. Never could that woman have served in such demanding positions if she had been the solitary caregiver for her huge family, without the other faithful wife, Mary Ann Newby.

Mary Ann taught in Relief Society for many years and sang for social gatherings, meetings and funerals. No task seemed too difficult, night or day. She left her family many times in the dead of night and walked many miles to minister to the sick and dying. She could always cheer them up in their dark moments. After sick ones passed away, she often prepared burial clothing and outfitted the family with suits, coats, or dresses as needed from cast-offs. Then they could be presentable at the funeral. Her speedy fingers made this possible and she never charged a needy family for such service.

Mary Ann's outside service continued as she helped Mary Wheeler with all her 12 children, plus the other Chadwick children still at home, and she gave birth to 6 of her own:
#4 Wife Mary Ann Newby 
1. Isabella, born 27 September 1867.
2. George Edward, born 19 December 1869.
3. Elizabeth Ann, born 3 May 1872.
4. Thomas Henry, born 29 June 1875.
5. John Charles, born 20 February 1878.
6. Margaret May, born 17 June 1880.
#5 Wife (But Not a Mary}--Ellen Burton
Ellen Burton, sister to Abraham's first wife Mary Burton, needed to obtain her U.S. Citizenship papers, so Abraham married her 7 July 1873. This would ensure that process. After nine months of marriage to Abraham, they were divorced on 22 April l874. Fortunately children did not complicate the problem. For the nine months of that marriage, Abraham had three wives at the same time, which was not an easy assignment for any of them.

With such industrious companions, Abraham was able to assist in community improvement projects-roads, ditches and canals. He was honored to hold the plow that made the first mark for the Harrisville Canal.
In the hard winter of 1867-68 he sold five tons of hay for $150, also 30 shocks of corn for $130, to be made into fodder. Many animals starved because of the hard winter. To help their dying animals, men took sacks and gathered dry grass from the area around Utah Hot Springs.
Life In A New Home
Early in the 1870's Abraham built a new brick home in the center of North Ogden where Mary Wheeler lived with the large family. Mary Ann Newby and her family lived in the smaller first home.

Each day during the summer, Abraham drove his herd of dairy cows to pasture. Sensing that spurs were cruel, he carried a little willow as he rode his bay mare Betty, while herding the cows.  Because he loved to chat with acquaintances, some days he didn't return home from herding until noon. He also enjoyed stuffing some ofhis garden vegetables inside his shirt, then climbed on "Old Betty" and delivered the vegetables to his married children and others.

Abraham's love of music was life long. For years he walked to Ogden to play in the brass band. On his return at night, he always whistled the same tune so his family would know who it was, and not an Indian.
In the 1880's the United States Congress shouted opposition to polygamy, causing serious trouble among Church members. By this time Abraham's first two wives were deceased. But he still had two wives which kept him on the "Feds" hot list. Much of his time was wasted, hiding in the com and tall grain. However, on 4 September 1886 he was arrested and the Federal Government subpoenaed his two surviving wives, Mary Wheeler and Mary Ann Newby.

On January 8, 1887, Abraham began a six-months sentence at the penitentiary, located on the south side of 21st South, between 13th and 17th East in Salt Lake City. In those days the prison men wore outfits with stripes going around them. A fine of $300 was also added to the imprisonment.  He was discharged July 8 and returned home. Abraham felt he couldn't abandon either of his two surviving wives. So two years later he was again arrested for "unlawful cohabitation."

As noted above, the last child in the Chadwick Family was Margaret May, born 17 June 1880, making a total of 26 children! At Margaret May's birth her mother, Mary Ann Newby, was 44 years old.
Abraham went to the Temple and performed many ordinances for his deceased ancestors. On 11 April 1898 alone, he was baptized for 40 souls.
Abraham's Last Days
Abraham always enjoyed his children and grandchildren, and he was their favorite.  Especially on summer evenings Abraham herded in the cows for the night and greeted residents as he urged the cows home. In his pocket was candy for grandchildren. When he knew his wife would be away next day, he invited neighbor children to his house to make kites, or candy, or to pop com. Great-great-grandson Jack Stephan Bailey wrote this verse:
Children loved Pop Chadwick
He understood them well;
If they hungered for amusement
He had a ''yam" to tell-
And as he told his story
The children echoed hints;
Then with a sigh, he'd wink his eye
And hand out peppermints.
Being a skilled tailor, Mary Ann Newby made clothing for neighbors as well as her own brood, also for the needy, and for affluent individuals. She was an excellent housekeeper, homemaker, and Church worker. Near the end of her life, she suffered intense pain in a long siege with cancer. Finally Mary Ann died 1 July 1893 at the age of 57. She left only three unmarried Chadwick children in the care of Mary Wheeler.
At the time of Mary Ann's death, the worry of polygamy ceased because Mary Wheeler was Abraham's only surviving wife for 11 more years.

Abraham died peacefully 4 July 1904 at his home in North Ogden, and was buried in the cemetery there. John Hall spoke at his funeral  The following lines from his sermon reflect a quality not heretofore mentioned: "As long as I have worked alongside of him, I have never heard him swear or tell a smutty joke .. .If something went wrong or he became upset, he would say, 'Oh, bother to it."'

Abraham worked throughout his 83 years and maintained his straight stature, measuring about 5' 7" tall. His light blue eyes continued to sparkle with enthusiasm as he served his neighbors and remained active in the Church. He left a real legacy to his growing posterity, which reaches into the seventh generation at this writing in 2002.

Mary Wheeler lived another eight years in her nice brick home in North Ogden. She died 2 November 1912 and was buried in the cemetery beside Abraham. Their generation came to an honorable end.


Saturday, June 22, 2013

Our last goodbye


We went down to Utah one last time after our weekend of fun to see Mom and Dad get set apart before they head south.  Dad will serve as the president of the Argentina Buenos Aries South Mission and is so lucky to have Mom as his companion.  Elder Richard G. Scott set them apart.  We were fortunate enough to spend a little time with him as he shared some thoughts and council with Mom and Dad.  They will be amazing and the missionaries that serve with them will undoubtedly be blessed.



The office we were in when they were set apart was very small so the kids weren't able to come.  But we loved being with them one last evening before we had to say our official goodbye.  We had said goodbye so many times in the last few weeks. We said goodbye when they left for Utah, and when we left to come home from Utah.  I guess in a way I hoped that the practice would make it a little easier....it didn't.

I made sure I got one last picture before the tears that I knew were coming actually started to fall.







This picture breaks my heart.  Each of my kids love Grandma and Grandpa so much.  We have been so blessed to live near them.  There is a special relationship between our kids and their grandparents.  As a mother I watch them interact and I am in awe.  They love them in a way that makes them feel so special and loved and I am so thankful for that.
We love them and will miss them so much but also we know we are so lucky that we have them in our lives.



Friday, June 21, 2013

A little bit of everything...and a whole lot of fun

Good company, good food and a lot of good fun.  We love our family and spending time with them.
We don't see this family nearly enough, it was so good to spend time with them.




Water fight!!


















Smores are becoming a bit of a tradition.  One I think is a pretty big hit.






The pile of shoes was enormous.

The crew climbed Ensign peak,


I love this girl.





 
We had so much fun.  One more Utah trip to see Mom and Dad off.  It's a little surreal.