Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Real Life

I started checking in on a number of blogs about two years ago.  To be honest I had a love/hate relationship with my regular check ins.  The lives I peeked in on seemed to be so put together.  Their children were clean, smiling and every hair was in place.  They traveled to exotic places and gave their family fantastic opportunities.  Dinner was well balanced and always on the table.  To top it all off every experience was documented with beautiful lighting in the most stunning photos I had every seen.  The kind of pictures that make you wish you were there, a part of the moment.  Inadequate, that is how I felt.  It was hard for me to imagine that these people could ever have a bad day.  Some how I think I believed that they were immune to real life.  Then thankfully I came across a post that was so undeniably relate-able I wanted to cry, but instead I just giggled, knowing that someone else out there in the blog world was real.  I couldn't find the exact post but anyone listed here lets me know that my life is pretty normal.  I also really like this post, she does a great job of comparing what we see with reality.  So in honor of real life and to begin a documentation of not only the sunshine and roses but the rainstorms and thorns I would like to welcome you to my house after a couple of weeks of trying to make memories before school started.  

We bought a new bed for our room, the mattress stayed in the front room for about 3 weeks while I decided what color to paint.  Guess what?  We never repainted.  It is finally set up.

This is a dropping ground, for purchases, shoes, gear for the next or previous planned activity.

At least there are clean dishes waiting to be put away and not just dirty dishes in the sink.

Laundry. Bleh.

Our desk is our own personal "Zion", the gathering place of our home.


I hope that my kids remember the reality of life and how we deal with imperfection allows us to grow.  Not to worry, the dishes were put away, clothes washed, and around the island causes no severe injuries.

Sunday, October 28, 2012

Mary Smith Anderson

 
Mary Smith Anderson is my Great great grandmother
on my fathers side. 
 Mary Smith Anderson
born - 23 February 1841
died - 8 May 1900

  • born in Dundee, Scotland
  • came to America in 1856 at the age of 15
  • was a part of the Willie Handcart Company
  • helped settle Rexburg in 1884
  • served as the 2nd counselor in the Fremont Stake Relief Socity presidency for 10 years


There are three different stories listed in this post, the first was given to me by my uncle, the second and third were written by her sister Betsy.  There are also two other great sources the first is a book entitled "The Price We Paid" by Andrew Olsen, page 42 lists Mary and her family specifically.  The other book  is "Tell My Story, Too"  by Jolene S.  Allphin.  Betsy once again is the family member listed but gives us great insight to Mary's experience on the trail.

Mary Smith Anderson

Mary Smith Anderson was born February 23, 1841, in the beautiful city of Dundee, Scotland.  Her father was a well to do merchant.  He owned large machinery and did not spare anything in giving his children a good education which was one of his strong characteristics.

The Mormon elders came to their city, so she in company with her mother and sisters went to their meeting to hear what they had to say.  They all felt it was the truth; they were converted and baptized into the Mormon Church.  Their father did not hinder them from attending their meetings, but he would not join as he was proud and could not stand the jeers of his associates.  He was a good man, loyal and true to his convictions.  He came down with typhoid fever and just at the turn of his fever, his counting house burned down with all his books.  This shock caused his death.  His family was cheated out of all the property, but a small store which they sold.  So Mary and her sisters went to work in a mill or factory to finish raising enough money to come to Utah.  They worked in the mill by day and did fancy work in the evening.  They soon earned enough money to come to Utah.

She left her beloved home in company with her mother, May McEwen Smith, Sisters, May, Jane, Betsy, and a brother Alexander who was just six years old.

On April 30, 1856 they sailed from Liverpool on the ship, Thornton, May 4th; arrived at New York June 14th.  They continued their journey by railroad and steamboat; arriving at Iowa City June 26th.  They had to remain there until the handcarts were ready.  They had to remain there until July 15th when they started across the plains in Captain J. G. Willie’s company.  Millen Atwood was the captain of the hundred in which they traveled.

They had a very hard and tedious trip across the plains.  They would travel about twenty-four miles a day, pulling the handcarts with their provisions and clothes.  They had traveled everyday for five weeks, Sundays included.  When they were in the buffalo country a lot of their oxen and cows stampeded so they had to lay over five days while the men hunted for the animals.  They found only part of them however, so one hundred pounds had to be added to each handcart.  Then the Captain said, “Fromm now on we will observe the Sabbath day.”

They were put on half rations and later were allowed only two ounces of flour.  Many died along the way.  While on their journey they cam to a patch of parsnips.  They gathered them and cooked them and ate their fill.  Then the Captain became all excited and told then not to eat another one.  He said there was enough poison in one to kill an ox.  Some of the women exclaimed, “Thank the Lord my stomach’s full”  None felt any bad results except one of the men who had eaten them after he was commanded no to do so; he died the next morning.

They and the last company that was two weeks later would have all perished if President Brigham Young had not sent help and provisions.  When they reached Utah they found many kind friends and were happy with their religion for which hey had sacrificed so much.  They arrived in Utah November 9, 1856.

Mary Smith was married to Andrew A. Anderson on July 27, 1857.  They made their home at Lehi, Utah until 1860; then they with their son moved to Cache Valley, and located at Smith field, Utah.  Here they lived until 1884.  Their children were: Andrew Smith, Sarah Ann, Mae, Joseph, Jane, Mary Alice, John Amos, Robert William, George Warren, Solva, and Zina.

She was a worker in the Relief Society and a teacher for many years in Sunday School.  She in company with her husband and children moved to Rexburg, Idaho in 1884.  This being a new country and not many doctors available, Sister Mary Smith Anderson who was a good nurse, was called out a great deal to wait on the sick.

She was sustained as First Counselor to the Stake President of the Relief Society of the Fremont Stake of Zion in 1890, which she held until the time of her death which occurred May 8, 1900.

She traveled around the Stake many times giving the sisters counsel to elevate them to a high standard of love and good works, and many sought her counsel as she made the weary take up their burdens and praise God for his wonderful love and care of his children.

It was said at her funeral that she was not only a mother to her own family, but to the city and Stake, and that no other women in the Stake would be missed more.

Sister Mary Smith Anderson did a lot of work for her dead relatives in the Logan Temple.

In all the trials she was called to pass through, she was never heard to murmur or complain, but always had a word to strengthen others in their faith and encouraged them to press onward and upward.



Resolutions of respect formed by the Stake Relief Society officers;
“Whereas in the dispensation of providence, God had seen fit to call home one of his daughters who labored long and well as First Counselor to the Stake President of the Relief Society of the Fremont Stake of Zion, and who also traveled many hundreds of miles visiting the different branches of the Relief Societies, in sunshine and showers.

And whereas she has proved herself an efficient worker in all her carious duties and was one whose kindness and generosity of spirit brought sunshine to all hearts, Visiting the sick and afflicted and helping the needy in time of want.  We can truly say that she was a peace maker and an administering angel.  Her memory will ever live with her many friends, and her bright gems of thought have been scattered broadcast to live in the hearts of men.

Resolved that we her sisters, united with her in the Stake Presidency with her earnest efforts and wise counsel.  To know her was to love her as we know she was one of God’s choicest Spirits.  Nevertheless less in this our loss, we feel to bow to the mandates of our Creator, who doeth all things well.

Resolved that a copy of these resolutions be sent to her family, a copy be placed on the Stake Record, and also a copy to be sent to the Woman’s Exponent for publication."

                                             Temperence Hinckley, Stake Pres and her Associates.

this history was given to me by my Uncle, Nylin Nelson


Family photo, from left to right:  Andrew Smith,  Andrew Alexander,
Joseph  (sitting on lap)  Sarah Ann,  Mary,  Almira Mae, standing holding
the hat, she is my great grandmother.



Mary's family,  Robert was a part of the rescue company that helped bring in the
members of the Willie Handcart Company.



Source: Goodwin, Betsy Smith, "Handcart Speech," Woman's Exponent, 1 Sept. 1888, 51.
Read Trail Excerpt:.
 . . we camped six weeks, waiting for the hand carts to be completed, and it was the first week in August ere we rolled out of Iowa to cross the dreary plains for our home with the Saints in Utah. My little brother [Alexander Joseph Smith] used to travel twenty and twenty-four miles in a day. We soon got used to travel, and while fair weather and full rations lasted we were all right. We traveled five weeks, never stopping for Sunday; then we were in the buffalo country; our cattle that hauled the provision wagons, and the cows were stampeded, and we camped there five days trying to find the cattle; most of them were never found; our captain then thought we had done wrong in not stopping to worship on Sunday. After that we kept the Sabbath day of rest for all.
Each cart had to its load of luggage one hundred pounds of flour, on account of our loss of cattle, now we were, in September, on half rations and cold weather. But we never forgot to sing, "Come, come, ye Saints, no toil nor labor fear." With great zeal and fervor, many fell by the way, hoping to rise in the First Resurrection of the Just. God grant it! I will not dwell on the hardships we endured with hunger and cold, but I like to tell how many a storm raged to the right and to the left of us, and did not molest us. One circumstance I remember very clearly; my mother [Margery McEwan Smith] was taken very sick with cramp cholera, a very fatal trouble then; we all felt bad about mother. I remember thinking, "Others are dying, and mother may die, and what a dark world it will be without mother," and as I gathered the dry sage to make a fire, I was crying. Mother met me and asked, "What is the matter?" I told her how bad I felt. She said: "Do not feel like that, but pray for me; you and all the rest, and we will get through. I have just been asking God to spare our lives, so none of us will be left on the way; and no matter what trials we have when we get to the valley, I shall never murmur or complain." God heard us, and I can say she kept her word. We lived, and are living yet.
One more incident I will relate: One evening we camped near a marshy meadow, which abounded in springs and poison parsnips; every one was elated; we had something good to eat. Alexander Burt was among the first to find them; he came to our camp fire and commenced to unload. Mother said: "Brother Burt, what have you got?" They are parsnips, Sister Smith, a sort of white carrot; put on the pot and let us have a good mess." "I will do that," said mother, and we cooked and ate our fill of poison parsnips. I confess we felt like we had eaten rocks, so heavy they were, and not only us, but the whole camp ate of them. Our captain arrived late at camp that night, and when he found out what we had been eating, he groaned aloud, and cried, "Put them down, each one contains enough poison to kill an ox." We were glad we had eaten ours, for we would not have dared to eat any after that; he said it would be one of the providences of the Almighty if we were not all dead by morning. We did not realize the truth of his words until next morning one brother died; we supposed he had eaten of them after he knew better. Now we had one quarter of a pound of flour a day, with neither salt or soda; some could hardly wait to cook it. It was October, stormy and cold. Soon the flour was all gone. Then there were crackers for two days; then the blessed boys of Utah met us with provisions. They gathered our wood and made our camp fires, and let us ride in their wagons; they found time to do a little sparking, also, and many a noble son and daughter can say, "My mother was a hand-cart girl."
Three miles this side of Green River, as I was walking ahead of the the carts, leading my little brother, encouraging him along with a story of what we would get when we came to the valley; he said: "Oh, Betsy, I wish when we get to that creek we would meet Bob." "Well, come along, may be we will;" and when we got to the top of the bank, we looked down and saw a team with only one yoke of cattle on; we had never seen the like before, so we waited on the top until they would pass; and it was our brother; he stared at us, and when he halloed we knew his voice. He jumped off and brought Mary Jane and Euphemia in his arms; they had come up with the cart while little Alex and I waited on the bank. How we wept for joy. The cart was tied behind the wagon; little Alex climbed in the wagon, as happy as a king's son, instead of being a poor tired child. The next question was, "Where is mother and Mary?" "They are behind somewhere, you will find them by the road." Mother was still sick, and when she stopped to rest, she had to lie down, she could not sit up; some had died that way; they would go to sleep like a tired child and never wake up. Mary was afraid mother would, and tried to arouse her by telling her there was a team coming with only one yoke of cattle on. "Well, never mind; Mary, don't bother me." "Well, mother, the man is running this way; mother, it surely is Robert!" "Oh, no, Mary, that would be too good to be true." Well, she was soon convinced with tears and kisses; he helped her in the wagon; then she said, "I could not be more thankful to get into the kingdom of heaven than I am to get in this wagon."
Then explanations followed. He told how he had been sick with the mountain fever; how he had got our letter saying we were coming, and as soon as he could walk, he prepared to come and meet us; he got cattle from one, wagon and cover from another, provisions from others. So we proved, "God helps those who help themselves."


The Tired Mother

Source of Trail Excerpt:
Goodwin, Betsey Smith, "The Tired Mother: Pioneer Recollections," Improvement Era, July 1919, 775-81.
Read Trail Excerpt:
After six or seven weeks’ sailing, seasickness, and stormy weather, we landed in New York City, registered at the Castle Garden, and in a few days we reached Iowa, by rail.
There we camped for weeks, waiting for the handcarts to be completed for the journey. While there, I was so sick with scarlet fever that I could not open my eyes. I heard Sisters [Jane Allison] Henderson and [Jane McKinnon] McPhail say, “I am sorry she is dying; another death in camp soon!” One baby had just died. I seemed to know that they were speaking of me, and when mother came in from the camp-fire, with warm broth, she saw the tears in my eyes.
“Are you worse?” she asked me.
"Mother they think I am dying: I want to live and go to the Valley.”
My dear mother, at that time in her fifty-second year, then went and brought the elders, who administered to me and rebuked the disease, commanding it to leave both me and the camp. My recovery was rapid. I was able to travel, and on the 15th day of July, 1856, we rolled out of the Iowa City camp, on our way to cross the plains with handcarts. Our captain was James Gray Willie, and his counselors were: Millen Atwood and Levi Savage. There were 120 handcarts and six wagons, and about five hundred people, sixty-six of whom died on the journey.
We soon became accustomed to traveling twenty and twenty four miles a day. My little brother [Alexander Joseph Smith], six years of age, used to travel that distance, by me taking his hand to encourage him, and by telling him stories of the future and the good things in store for us.
Around the camp-fire we had very good times. There was Brother [Alexander] Burt, Brother David Anderson and others, and our girls who sang the old songs and hymns that warmed our hearts. While fair weather and full rations lasted, we were all right. We traveled five weeks, never stopping for a Sunday. Then we were in the buffalo country. Our cattle, that had hauled the provision wagons, and some cows, were then stampeded by the Indians, it was supposed. At the stampeding place we camped five days; the men went in all directions seeking for the lost cattle. Only a few were found. Our captain then thought we had done wrong in not stopping to worship on the Sabbath day, for we had lost more than we had gained.
Following this experience, we kept sacred the Sabbath day for worship and rest, and felt better for it. Owing to the loss of the cattle, there was added to the load of each cart one hundred pounds of flour.
September came, and we were on half rations and had cold weather, but we never forgot to pray, and we sang, “Come, Come, Ye Saints,” with great zeal and fervor. We realized that we needed the help of God to see us through. Many were dying from the hardships of the journey.
Let me add that I stood by a grave where sixteen people were buried at once; they were sewed up in sheets and covered with brush, then with earth and ashes. This happened during a very cold spell, and I think it was while we were coming through the Black Hills. I froze my fingers, but they were saved by good attention when we got to Lehi. At the same time, my mother traveled fifteen miles with little Alex on her back, as he couldn’t walk in the snow.
I will not dwell upon the hardships we endured, nor the hunger and cold, but I like to tell of the goodness of God unto us. One day, especially, stands out from among the remainder. The wind blew fresh, as if its breezes came from the sea. It kept blowing harder until it became fierce. Clouds arose, the thunder and lightning were appalling. Even the ox teams ahead refused to face the storm. Our captain, who always rode a mule, dismounted and stepped into the middle of the road, bared his head to the storm, and every man, as he came up, stood by him with bared head—one hundred carts, their pullers and pushers, looking to their captain for counsel. The captain said, “Let us pray.” And there was offered such a prayer! He told the Lord our circumstances, he talked to God, as one man talks to another, and as if the Lord was very near. I felt that he was; and many others felt the same. Then the storm parted to the right and to the left! We hurried on to camp, got our tents pitched, and some fires built, when the storm burst in all its fury! We had camped on a side-hill, and the water ran through the tents in little creeks.
Another circumstance I remember clearly. My mother was taken very sick with cramp and cholera. A very fatal trouble in our weakened condition. We all felt bad about mother. I remember thinking, “Many are dying: mother may die, and what a dark world it would be without our dear mother!” As I gathered the sage to burn on our camp-fire, I couldn’t keep from crying. When I met mother, she asked me what was the matter. I told her how badly I felt.
She said, “Do not feel like that; pray for me. I have been out yonder in the snow praying to the Lord to spare our lives, that we might get through to the Valley. I will never murmur nor complain, whatever we pass through, when we get there.”
God heard our prayers, and she kept her word. Even when, in years following, she went blind with age, she never murmured.
One more incident I will relate. One evening we camped near a marshy meadow spring. Poison parsnips grew there in plenty. Everybody was elated. We had found something to cook and to eat! By this time, our ration was four ounces of flour a day, and neither salt nor soda. Alexander Burt brought some parsnips to our camp fire.
Mother said, “What have you there, Brother Burt?”
He answered, “They are parsnips, Sister Smith, a sort of white carrot; put on the pot and let us have a mess.”
“I will do that,” said mother, and we cooked and ate our fill of poison parsnips.
I confess we felt like we had been eating rocks, so heavy they lay upon our stomachs. The whole camp ate of them. Our captain arrived late at the camp that night, and when he found what we had been eating, he groaned aloud, and cried, “Put them down; every one contains enough poison to kill an ox.” He said, furthermore, that it would be one of the providences of the Almighty if we were not all dead by morning. However, many were glad that they had eaten of them before they knew. We did not realize the truth of his words until the next morning when one brother died—a Scandinavian. We supposed that he had eaten them after he knew they were poison.
It was October now. The flour was gone, and we had enough crackers for only a two-days’ ration. We rolled into camp.
“Come, Bessie,” said Janet, “let us gather fuel for our fire.”
We went over a little hill toward the west, “Look, Jennie; there is a team of horses and two men! See, they are stopping to speak!”
Now, Jennie was eighteen and bashful, and whispered, “You answer,” as we went towards them. It was Joseph A. Young and Cyrus H. Wheelock. I learned this afterwards.
Brother Young said: “Sister, where is your camp?”
“Just over the hill yonder.”
“Is there any sickness in the camp?”
“No,” was the answer: “just one woman died today while eating a cracker.”
“Have you any provisions?”
“All gone but some crackers.”
“Well, cheer up,” he said, “help is coming!”
I turned to sister and said, “What ailed that man? I saw him wiping his eyes.”
“It may be that he is sorry for us. Let us hurry to camp and hear him speak.”
We did so, and he told us there were many wagons with provisions coming soon; and there were. The relief was followed by great rejoicing, and we thanked the Lord in prayer.
Brothers Young and Wheelock went on next morning to carry the news to Martin and Tyler’s company; two weeks behind us on the road.
The boys from Utah came the next day. How glad we were and how good they were! They gathered the wood, and made the fires, and let the weary ride in the wagons. On the side, I might state, also, that many lasting friendships were made between the boys and the young women. It looked that way to me!
About three miles on this side of Green River, as I was walking ahead of the train, leading my little brother of six, and encouraging him along by telling him stories of what he would get when we arrived at the Valley, he said: “When we get to that creek, I wish we could see our brother Rob.”
I said, “Come along, maybe we will, when we get to the top of the bank.”
When we arrived at the top of the bank and looked down we saw a wagon with just one yoke of oxen on. We had never seen the like before, so we waited on the summit until they should pass. The man stared at us, and as his team came beside us, he yelled, whoa, to the oxen. It was then we knew him. He jumped off the wagon and caught his sisters in his arms as they came up with the cart. How we all wept with joy!
The cart was then tied behind the wagon. Little Alex climbed into the wagon as happy as a prince, instead of a poor, tired child.
The next question from Rob was, “Where is mother and Sister Mary?”
“They are behind somewhere, Robby. You will find them by the road.” Mother was still sick, and when she stopped to rest she had to lie down; she could not sit up. Some had died that way; they would go to sleep and never awaken.
Mary was afraid that mother would do likewise, and tried to arouse her by telling her about a team coming with only one yoke of cattle on.
Mother replied, “Well, never mind, Mary; don’t bother me; I am so tired.”
"Well, mother, the man is running this way. It surely is Robert.”
“O, no, Mary; that would be too good to be true!"
Well, she was soon convinced, as Robert took her in his arms and helped her into the wagon. As he did so, mother exclaimed, “I couldn’t be more thankful to get into the kingdom of heaven than I am to see you, and lie here and rest.”
Explanations followed. Robert stated that he had suffered from a mountain fever, and was just recovering when he received a letter that we were coming. He then borrowed and hired an outfit to come and meet us. None too soon!
We arrived at Lehi in due time, and Bishop Evans welcomed us to his ward.








Friday, October 26, 2012

Quiet mornings

Last year we started driving our kids to school and picking them up.  It has made an enormous difference in not only our mornings but our lives in general.  Troy and I thought long and hard about our decision.  We considered the idea that the bus gives the kids opportunities to learn how to deal with challenges, that hard things make you grow and everything that goes with that.  But there were also so many things that were being introduced to our kids that I did not love.  Bullies, kids with i-pods and downloaded movies that we didn't approve of, and rated M games on the DS.  J.T. had been hit in the face and got a bloody nose for defending Sara.  Cambelle was being teased by this same kid.  I wondered what was going to finally happen that would make me regret not making the decision sooner.  We finally bit the bullet and decided it would be worth the time and the gas to make the drive twice daily, and how grateful I am.


We get almost an extra hour in the morning.  The bus would come about 7:15 or 7:20, now we can leave at 8:00 and make it on time.  This opens up all sorts of opportunities, the kids get their main chores done, pianos get practiced, and the stress level for getting out the door has dramatically been reduced.  The kids get a chance to read in the morning.  One morning I caught this vision with my phone.  I love it and am grateful Troy and I made the choice.


Thursday, October 25, 2012

A stolen moment

Sundays at our house are probably pretty similar to so many other houses.  There is always the lost shoe waiting to be found, showers that come directly after the fit insisting that "they just took one the other day", and the mad rush to get out the door to make it to meetings on time.  But every once in awhile there is a moment that steals my heart and nestles in my mind.  One of those mornings happened this summer.  J.T. has begged Troy to teach him how to play chess and one Sunday morning there was a lull in the regular activities after Troy's morning meetings and before we all had to leave for church.  They sat at the table with the sun streaming in, talking and playing.  How blessed are my kids to have him as a dad.


Moments like this create the memories of yesterday and the hopes for tomorrow.  I love that.

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

15 years


Fifteen years ago this young man picked me up and took me to the temple where we were married.  I love him, he truly is my best friend, and I couldn't ask for anything more than that.

This is part of the journal entry I made for that day, "Brother Adamson, who performed the ceremony, spoke of three "C"'s consideration, communication, and cultivation.  The last, cultivation, was very interesting, he said, "that which we want to become, we can develop."

I can't think of a more appropriate phrase to describe our marriage.  Our journey has been one of discovering who we want to become, individually and together.  Fifteen years at times sounds like a long time and at the same time I realize how little we have experienced. 


Fifteen years later.  I am glad we chose each other.


I LOVE YOU!!

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Happy Birthday Sar Bear!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
14...14...14...14...14...14...14...14...14...14...14...14
Seriously?
When was this chick given permission to grow up?

This year we spent a very low key evening together with grandma and grandpa.



Her expressions when unwrapping gifts have always been my favorite.  When she was little she made the comment once, "I love when Santa gives me something I didn't know that I wanted."  She was always been excited and grateful.
I am taking a year off of elaborate birthday cakes.  We have two birthdays this year on Wednesday.  I should do a post about one of my average Wednesdays, CUURAAZZZY.


THINGS I LOVE ABOUT SARA....
1. her ability to talk to people
2. her love of music
3. her smile
4. her crazy talent to speak publicly
5. shopping with her
6.  listening to her laugh with her friends
7.  and so many other things!!!!!

She truly is amazing.



Monday, October 15, 2012

Boise Idaho Temple

We had the chance to travel to Boise for the open house of the Boise Temple before it is rededicated in November.  It was a pretty quick trip, we left on Friday, stayed the night, went through the temple on Saturday morning and then headed home.  But it was very worth the trip.  It was beautiful, and the feeling inside was wonderful.  I love being in the temple with my kids.  My dream is to one day be in one of those beautiful buildings with my children and their spouses.  It is was life is all about, families, forever.






Boise has a special place in my heart, when it was originally built and dedicated in 1984 my mom and dad took me over there for the first open house.  I was in fourth grade and studying Idaho History, so a trip to the state capitol was so very memorable.  They were wonderful, they pretty much let me plan the trip.  We went to the capitol building, a museum, and I had the chance to see in person so many of the things that I had been learning about.  It was fantastic, especially for a budding history lover like myself.  The most memorable moment however occurred in the temple.  We walked past the brides room and my mom pulled me aside to show me the mirrors and the beauty of that tiny little room.  She put her arm around me and whispered to me that one day I could be in a room like that getting ready for my own eternity.  It made an impression on me, one that I have carried close to my heart.  One I hope I shared with my kids on this trip.

1984, me with my sweet dad.





Saturday, October 6, 2012

Cross Country

This year Sara and J.T. decided to run on the cross country team.  They have been amazing and it has been so much fun to watch.  They have worked so hard and been so dedicated.  Every meet they did a little better.  I am so very proud of them.




One thing I love about this experience is there are some fantastic kids that are a part of the team.  They have made some really good friends.





J.T. loved the sprint at the end.





They had a great year!!  Here is hoping it happens again next year.